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to the Family:
Religious
Naming Ceremonies for the New Baby
Naming
ceremonies cross all religious and national boundaries. The tradition of embracing
a new life as part of the community began in ancient times, when early humans
believed that a child was a gift of the gods and there was no concept of exactly
how the gift was bestowed.
In
modern times, there is more knowledge about the process of how the tiny new life
began, but the miracle of a birth is still cause for celebration in the family
and the community. Religious naming ceremonies take on different forms depending
on the faith of the parents, but they all have some common features based on this
universal heritage.
Welcome
the child into the community
The
birth of a child is a proud moment for the mother and father. The extended family,
the larger community of friends and neighbors and the congregation that the parents
worship with all share the joy at the news. The bris, christening, baptism or
naming ceremony of each faith all serve the purpose of welcoming the new member
of the community. In part it is an introduction, but a bit of the ceremony stems
from the concept that each adult present at the ceremony is in part responsible
for the care of the child. This is the reason that gifts are given at these ceremonies.
Announce
the names that have been chosen
Choosing a baby name is not
a simple task. In some cultures the name of the parent or a respected friend or
relative is given to the child. Other cultures give the name of a deceased relative
to honor the memory of the ancestors.
In other cultures, the religious elders
are consulted to provide a name that will bring good fortune to the child. No
matter what method if used, the choice of the given name is important and the
naming ceremony serves to identify this new baby as someone who exists as a unique
individual - with a name that has meaning. Often, the meaning of the name is explained
as part of the ceremony.
Make
promises of commitment to the child
The adults who are chosen to attend
religious naming celebrations are usually close to the parents. They are either
related by birth or have become close through friendship or shared beliefs. This
is the core of the community that the new baby belongs to. These are the adults
who will share and shape the future of the child. Being asked to participate in
these ceremonies is an honor, but also a commitment.
Choose
other adults to provide for the child
In
most religious ceremonies, a godparent or godparents are chosen. Although all
of the adults are committed to cherish and care for the new baby, the role of
godparent is more serious. They promise that they will make sure that the child
is taken care of and raised in the faith if for some reason the parents are not
able to do this. Being a godparent is not something that should be entered into
lightly.
So
the next time you are asked to attend a naming ceremony, respond with the knowledge
that you are following a tradition that goes back to the dawn of mankind. You
are the recipient of a special honor and carry a special responsibility to share
in the nurturing of a new life.
More baby
naming ceremony resources:
The
Sebou Ceremony: Welcoming a New Born Baby in Egypt
Naming
Ceremonies - Welcoming Ceremonies in New Zealand
Related
baby name resources:
Baby
Name Finder
SSA
- Popular Baby Names
also see
-> What's in a Baby's Name?
| Baby Names - Trendy, Traditional