When It Comes to Engagements
Do
Manners Still Matter?
With
marriage proposals modernizing into an "anything goes"
mentality, long-standing proposal customs are often considered
optional, adding confusion to what's considered proper when
it comes to proposing.
In fact, a recent proposal survey conducted by Korbel Champagne Cellars revealed that 68 percent of Americans agree that there's no "right" way to propose.
Korbel and etiquette expert Peter Post weigh in on some of today's most-discussed proposal etiquette issues:
Meet the Parents
This is a common question and an area where the rules have slightly changed. The concept of asking your intended's parents' permission to wed may seem old-fashioned, but the modern equivalent isn't - discussing your plans and intentions with your future in-laws is still a sign of respect.
On Bended Knee
Once considered a sign of servitude to the lover, this tradition dates back to the days of knights and chivalry and continues to evoke romance today. But if you think you'll be weak at the knees when proposing, pick another pose that's comfortable for you.
Romance Rules
Decide on what your intended will find sentimental and memorable and incorporate meaningful gestures - such as asking for her hand at her favorite restaurant.
About
the Author...
For more information on Korbel Champagnes and Perfect Proposals www.korbel.com.
More about how to propose marriage around the Web:
Guide to Marriage Proposal Etiquette - Tips on how to prepare, talking with parents and choosing the engagement ring.
Marriage Proposal Do's and Don'ts - About.com guide with a good list of what and what not to do when proposing marriage including keeping it private and not too splashy.
also see -> Valentine's
Day Proposals
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