Mothers Day!
Do we ever
think about all the blood, sweat, and tears a Mother puts into
the lives of those around her? During the month of May, many
of us hurry over to purchase something nice for mom. However,
does she REALLY need that?
Think of
all the things your mom has done for you. Mine changed my diapers,
fed me, clothed me, and spent way more money on my clothes than
her own. She was the chauffer, shoulder to cry on, advice giver,
chief cook, bottle washer, nurse, housekeeper, and supreme typist
for those last minute reports that were due. And how many of
you girls used your mom as your sounding board? I know I sure
did and still do. However, for Mothers Day most of us
just run to a store and buy something nice for her, such as
flowers or chocolate. While those things are nice
they are not going to make up for the many years of labor she
has given.
Have you
ever thought of either hiring a cleaning crew for her or doing
her cleaning for her? If you really have to spend money, send
her out for a massage, facial, manicure, pedicure, and favorite
lunch while YOU take over her duties for a day.
Why not
put together some sort of tribute in a scrapbook or family tree
that she can set out on her coffee table? This takes time and
ingenuity and will truly show her how much you care while giving
her something to remember your love.
For those
of you who do not have your mothers with you any longer, think
about adopting a mom. Is there a woman in your life whos
a mom and you happen to KNOW wont be getting any appreciation
this Mothers Day? How about you take her out or make her
dinner? Think of ways to celebrate the life of your own Mother
by being with another.
I have two
friends who are facing their first Mothers Day without
their own moms. They are so heartbroken that if someone were
to take them out and love them, I know it would make all the
difference. Isnt that what women are all about, making
a difference in the lives of others? Were the nurturers
and caretakers. Dont let it stop at your immediate family!
Carry it to other families in need.
Take this
time to enjoy your Mother. Have fun with her. Celebrate her
life. Revel in her love.