That means that all the engaged couple has to do is complete a free sign-up form, pick the gifts they want, and let their wedding guests do the rest.
The result? A wedding gift is bought and paid for online in minutes - avoiding most of the hassle of duplicate gifts and returns. Many services even provide gift wrapping and a message at no extra charge.
[Note to gift givers: even the most well-known stores "drop the ball" occasionally, so the experts advise allowing enough shopping time before the wedding date to
ensure against any last-minute glitches or possible returns.]
What to register for...
Register online, pick out the gifts you want,
and let your wedding guests do the rest.
the wedding gift wish list to practical proportions like housekeeping items, dishes and cookware, but think about adding a few over-the-top items as well.
If you're into home entertaining, think about that high-end food processor you've had your eye on, or maybe a set of crystal glassware you can show off in the dining room.
Pick out at least one or two luxurious items that you've always wanted, or something
that makes you feel special.
Why not? Hey! It's your wedding day!
Wedding registry timeline
couples begin thinking about registering with at least one store between a year to six months before the wedding.
you are planning an engagement party before that, you may want to make sure that you're registered in case the guests want to start gifting you at the celebration At least six months before the wedding make sure you've register with at least one shop.
If you choice is not an online registry, make sure that it is accessible to your friends and family who live at a distance. Check you registry two to three months
before the wedding to make certain that there are still plenty of gift options in all price ranges and if there aren't, add a few more items to the registry.
About a month before the wedding, you can start writing thank you notes for your early wedding gifts. It will make sending the thank you notes after the wedding much easier. Wedding registries often include the name of the person who purchased the gift and you'll want to make sure any items already received are not still on the registry - so be sure to check the registry as you write the thank yous.
While you're updating the registry to eliminate duplicate gifting, check one last time
to make sure you still have gift ideas in all price ranges and add any last minute items you've thought of.
Gift registry etiquette
Although it is becoming more common, try not to include your registry information with your wedding invitation. It really is considered tacky, at best. It isn't considered polite to use your wedding invitation to suggest that your guests provide a gift even if you know everyone will be giving one.
One way to get around this is to include the bridal registry information with your wedding shower invitation. Since the shower is clearly a gifting event, it is not out of line to let people know where you've registered.
most cases, the shower and wedding lists will overlap. Simply tell all those people who are not being invited to the wedding shower(s) or else anyone who asks where you are registered and let them spread the word.
Since most of the bigger wedding registries are online now, shopping for the perfect
wedding gift has never been easier. There are also specialized web sites that bring many stores together to offer a wider range of products.
When you use an online registry have the list under both the bride and groom's names. If you have a common last name, add a middle initial or a nickname to make finding your wedding details easier for anyone shopping for a gift for you.
Remember, your guests don't need to buy a gift that's on the registry you have chosen. They can still shop around for better prices or for their own original wedding gift. The only drawback is that
gifts will remain on the registry, or there will be a possibility of duplicate gifting. Again, make sure you are constantly updating your registry to make sure that doesn't happen.
Also remember that no matter how careful you are, you might still receive duplicate gifts. But no worries. Simply return the gift to the store where you're registered and ask for either a cash refund or an exchange.